I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?

He never loved you.

When he approached you, he never thought about love, because he did not love you. He only thought about how he could take from you, until you were left a dried-out husk.

He just told you that he loved you, and he led you on. He probably mentioned your future together, and even marriage.

This is a real question: Why do a lot of men/boys hate (yes, hate) women that voice their criteria in choosing a partner? Even when the criteria is sane and responsible. Besides it being, sadly, an effective mating strategy, why does it exist?

You gave him everything. That is what he was after.

This one is easy to answer.

These types of NPD men are a dime a dozen.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

I gave him everything. He said he loved me. Why?

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